DETACHMENT-HAPPINESS

Detachment:- Attached to everyone

Each one of us have got something to do in our life.

We do a lot of things which is related to our self. We do everything which is good for us, our family and friends, in order to get this we go to any extent.

Each one of us has got some desire in our life.

Some get success,

Some get failure.

Our life hovers around these two words.
We play a chase game in each and every moment of our life.
Why this chase?

Why can’t we live without these two words?

This the reason why some people are extremely happy and some are unhappy with their life.

Why not everyone is happy?

Why don't we think we are there

in this short life to manifest?

Something which is hidden inside all of us.

We become materialistic sometime because of this desire.

We do everything damb thing for getting this success.

Why don't we change the philosophy of success?

If we make someone happy by the complete purity of our heart, I tell you one thing the success definition will change, because the next stage of success is

satisfaction.

If you do this you can really get satisfaction, not only from your self but also from this life, which is infinite times better than success. I hope it will be clear to you if you read next few
paragraphs.

I wanted to tell you something very seriously, when you see someone

unhappy (who is unknown to you), why are we even afraid of thinking how to make him/her happy.

But if you see someone unhappy very close to you, you try everything to make him/her happy.

Why?

I want to tell you that the satisfaction in making happy someone unknown to you and getting nothing in return will give you pure satisfaction.

Why are we bounded every time in whatever we do or think?

Why is this boundary? Why are we bounded by our relationship?

If we encompass all these things then we will get to know that our thinking or mentality lags affection towards growth of humanity.

We all have got relationship and we are bounded or attached by them

but at least we should have something for others.

I want to tell you that this bounding led to the formation of boundary.

The boundary goes on increasing with attachment.

It is actually built by us and if it cracks or someone close to us dies, we feel unhappy and insecure.

This feeling of insecurity extracts hell out of nothing and we sometime blame everyone including God.

This boundary is being built by us and we are never allowed to see the
other side of boundary, right from our childhood.

The reason is our culture, society barrier over us in whatever we think or do.

Well, let us wake up and see the other side of boundary how much happiness and unhappiness is there for each one of us.

If someone dies other side we don’t respect or sacrifice for them because we feel like they are not in our relationship and thus we never become secure from this.

This is because of attachment.

I want to tell you that the root of all sort of unhappiness is attachment.

If you can get the same amount of happiness or unhappiness that you generally get after seeing or making someone unknown to you then you will not have this boundary anymore. Then you can get pure satisfaction from your life.

I am not so experienced in my life but according to me, if someone got
this feeling then only he/she can be selfless and thus the whole problem
of world will be solved and everyone will become honest in whatever
he/she does.

Thus he/she can contribute towards growth of mankind or spirituality practice. This feeling is what spirituality is all about. If the reader practice this then he/she knows better meaning of spirituality than anyone in the world.

The whole thing can be understood by only those who give respect to
anything for getting nothing in return. These things can give you something which is better than anything i.e. called self-satisfaction or realization of God.

Real live example:-

A family consists of parents and their relatives. The parent throughout there life tries everything to support their child in every field. Suppose the child goes to school and usually comes first in his class. He made his family proud and raises his self-esteem excellent every time.

Now once upon a time, he didn’t come first and his performance was bad, someone else got first rank.

His parents are now unhappy as they are
attached to their child.

If the parent get the same amount of happiness after seeing an unknown being the topper then they will not have this boundary anymore.

Parents will be now detached (or attached to everyone).

Of course this thinking can come only if we are selfless in whatever we do or think or
follow spirituality.

Since this happiness is purely selfless and parents are giving respect
(by being happy) to someone unknown to them and expecting nothing in
return.

Spirituality is an ideal path that can make us happy under any critical circumstances.

The purpose of article is to change the mentality of people for the growth of humanity, to make world a better place to live..

By Vishal Sinha

Hard to implement but not at all impossible.

TO BE CONTINUED....